Wednesday, May 31, 2006

We're Back!

I know you’ve all been waiting for the story of the move… Well, I’ve finally taken a moment to jot it down. Enjoy!

Everyone said moving was a pain…I’ve done it many many times (cross country twice before!) but somehow repressed the “painful” feeling of moving. Or perhaps all of my other moving experiences just went so smoothly that it really wasn’t painful. I owe many thanks to my family and my friends for helping me move. I’ve never had a shortage of help during a move. Aren’t people wonderful?

Well, this time, it hasn’t gone so smoothly. I totally let the movers screw me over and charge me tons of money for packing materials I didn’t ask them to use. I’m not getting into the story here, because it’s too emotional. Let’s just say, I learned a big lesson, and I’m sorry to A for roping him into my stupid mistakes.

It’s beyond two weeks since Moving Day and our furniture and prize possessions are on a truck somewhere in the U.S.A. (I hope). The moving company was very excited to tell me that “It’s on its way!”. I thought it would be here a week ago!!!

A and I are making the most of an empty two bedroom apartment with an air mattress and internet TV. Are you aware of the free TV shows you can watch on ABC.com. It’s only until June 30th. Check it out! We have an omelet pan, a spatula, a toaster, a few plates, silverware, and towels for the shower. Actually, we are feeling pretty functional in our sparse new home. A is missing having a chair and table, but come on…who said life should be luxurious? (coming from the person who sits in a cushy chair at work all day!)

The Road Trip: Fabulous!!!
I flew to San Jose on Friday May 12th and raided my Sis’ house for boxes, tape, etc. It was great to see Mom there! We’re such coast hoppers. Sis drove me to Sacramento (even though she was feeling sick) that night. Friday night (late) and all day Saturday were spent packing stuff into boxes and getting ready for the movers. C & S came up from San Francisco for a last hurrah, which was a nice mellow dinner at Pyramid. It was nice to chat and catch up! Sunday morning, the movers arrived, and wrapped my furniture in cardboard that they proceeded to charge me an arm and a leg for! It was hot, and everything was moving so fast, I didn’t process until later what went on. Anyway, I cleaned and mopped the apartment after the movers were gone…and we were feeling a little anxious with their handling of our stuff. Around 3pm on Sunday the car was loaded, the apartment was clean, we had said good bye to Sis and hoped she felt better when she got back to Sunnyvale. Allergies were driving us both crazy in Sacramento. A and I hit the road! This was the moment. The start of our road trip!

First stop, two miles away, the Blue Gecko bar and grill to hang with our friends. A did a great job rounding up the troops, and I thank all of you that came to wish us farewell. It was a wonderful reunion for me and great to see everyone before heading out. Around 8pm, we hit the road for real. Well, we had to drop of the apartment keys in Roseville, and get gas. It’s a good thing we don’t believe in omens because, guess what happened at the gas station? We hadn’t even left the Sacramento region…. We were sitting at the gas station, finished pumping our gas, looking at the map and discussing how far to drive that night when….. several police cars race down the street with sirens blaring…a few moments later a speeding truck lands in front of us and skids across the gas station (avoiding the pumps) and stops only because it runs into some parked cars. Police surround the stopped vehicle, pull out the driver and two female passengers, throw them on the ground and hold them at gun point. There were guns everywhere. Scary! The police got everyone under control and the scene calmed down pretty quickly… did anyone see this on the news or read about it in the paper? The truck had come barreling through an intersection, crashing into a car in the intersection, knocking over a street light, hopping a median and causing all kinds of mess. Once things were calm, we continued onto our road trip. A seemed fine, I was a little shaken up by the whole thing.

Night 1: Lovelock, Nevada. A small truck stop kind of town…turned out to be the most expensive hotel of the trip at $70 for the night. We ate breakfast the next morning at a Mexican diner that “also serves American food”.

Night 2: Idaho Falls, Idaho. We strategically placed ourselves for a day of fun in Grand Tetons and Yellowstone the next day. We strolled a little (turned out to be quite a long stroll along the river) in Idaho Falls and I learned about rivers, dams, water pressure, and energy generation. It’s nice knowing a water resource engineer! They have a very nice river walking path and it was a beautiful night for a stroll. A super fancy Best Western for only $60 a night. It’s nice what you get for your dollar in the Mid west. This was the start of our free continental breakfast theme for the trip…biscuits and gravy! (along with the muffins, bagels, etc.)

Night 3: Billings, Montana. We took our time driving through Jackson Hole, Wyoming, the Grand Tetons National Park, and Yellowstone. We arrived at Old Faithful just in time for it to erupt. Then walked around some of the geysers. It really does feel like being on a different planet (if we could really imagine what it’s like to be on a different planet). I’ll upload some pics soon. We saw plenty of Bison!...in fact we had to share the road with them….Okay, so I was scared at the way they were coming straight at the car, but no one was injured.

Night 4: Soux Falls, South Dakota. On the drive we went through the area of General Custer’s last stand, so A taught me about Custer’s mission to defeat the Indians and the time period when white folk were warring with Indians to take their land, etc. We also did lessons on how to use the compass and are now more confident in our “on the fly” navigation skills. It’s tricky when the car is moving! Between A’s analytical “this is the way it works mind” and my summer camp experiences we have the whole navigating process figured out.

Night 5: South Bend, Indiana. Sorry I didn’t call Mairead! I realized afterward that you actually live in South Bend…. We were tired of the typical diner fare so we picked up Chinese food take out and watched HBO in the Motel 6 room. Yup, we were livin’ it up. The entire night (including dinner) cost $48! By this time in the trip we were deep into our borrowed Audio Books (yippee for Boston Public Library). We had finished the third part of the five part trilogy of the Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy Radio Show and were well into Around the World in 80 Days (unabridged) read by Jim Dale (who reads the Harry Potter Audio Books). I slept through much of the Hitchhikers Guide, but really enjoyed Around the World in 80 Days.

Night 6: Longmeadow, Massachusetts. It was a long trek, but not so unbearable….we landed at A’s aunt’s house around 10:30pm after driving through Indiana, Ohio, Pennsylvania, and New York. The exciting part is that she lives just near the border to Connecticut so we got to add that state to our road trip too! We didn’t take a detour to Niagara Falls, so A will just have to see the seventh wonder of the world another time… It was great to meet the family in Longmeadow and stroll through Longmeadow days the next morning.

Night 7: Quincy, Massachusetts. We went to our apartment in Brighton. Woo Hoo!!! We’re home!!! We futzed around..unloaded the car, found out the phone is not working..and went to Mom and Dad’s place in Quincy for a real bed and food.

Night 8: Brighton, Massachusetts.

And now, you are caught up to speed! We’ve been living on our air mattress for a week and a half now. Mom was kind enough to take us shopping for area rugs, Costco goods, etc. So, we have plenty of toilet paper, and really aren’t doing badly. We are having fun exploring our new neighborhood.

A’s broken thumb is healing and he’s feeling more independent with everyday tasks like tying his shoes.

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Wingnut Philosophies

As I depart for a cross-country move (this is number three!), I leave you with these ideas to ponder. Keep in mind, I'll be enjoying the blue skies of the mid west over the next week! (oh yeah, there will be some hectic packing involved beforehand...)

I’ve been testing out / considering some life mottos these past few weeks. Do you have a motto that you live by? If you do, you know that it’s tough to stick to it through everything!

One that has done me very well was a promise to myself to not regret any decisions I’ve made. I figured that if I considered the decision at the time, then it was the right decision, regardless of what I think when I look back on it. It worked out really well for many many years. Now, however, there are a few things that I feel guilty for…I’m not sure I could’ve done anything about them…and Sis would never believe that I have the ability to feel guilt, but I do. I still feel confident in the decisions I make and don’t feel too much regret….but life continues to get more complicated. YIKES! Who’s idea was it to grow up and be an adult anyway?

Some lessons I’ve learned:
Mom always told me I’m not an island. The decisions I make, affect other people. Okay. I get it. I try my best to consider those around me. Really, I do.

Mom also told me, that I need to live my life for me. Do what I want to do. Here I am, embracing the mindset of a freebird (except I plan to stay put for a while). You only get one life (at least in my belief system) and I plan to live it to the max! (I'm not sure what that means yet, but a year of travel is in the future for sure.) The wonderful thing is that I am constantly supported by my loving family and wonderful friends.


Here are some mottos for you to consider:

Live your dreams.

Make life fun (and adventurous).

No regrets (what's done is done...do you believe in Karma?).

Let the little things count! They can make you smile.

In closing, ask yourself these two questions. If you don’t make it happen, who will? Why not get what you want? Go for it! As Dr. Seuss would say, the world is yours!!!

Tuesday, May 9, 2006

Wingnut Training (the Running Update)

It’s been a while since you’ve had a Wingnut Training update. I bet you’re dying of curiosity! Oh no, wait, that’s what kills cats, not people. Hold your horses! It’s right here…the big update.

Remember that 10K I was training for? I know, you’re thinking…NO! I remember the half-marathon you were training for… Well, there’s no half marathon yet, but I did run my second 10K for the year on April 30th. My watch clocked 1 hour 4 minutes and 20 seconds. It was the James Joyce Ramble. Yup, readers dressed in period pieces were dotted throughout the course reading aloud from the works of James Joyce. I haven’t read any of his works, but I sensed a theme along the lines of “why have you left me my dear loved one?”. Info on the race is here: www.ramble.org









This is me running! Photo courtesy of Mom (my fan club). I must say, she is a great fan club! Thanks for cheering me on Mom! Can you see how happy I am to be nearing the finish line? Note the green socks. They are lucky.



Since the 10K, I’ve been keeping up that running schedule I got from Fleet Feet back in January. It works out pretty swell as a regular schedule. I run a few times during the week, and try to do long runs on the weekend. I hit Quincy hard this past Sunday. Up and down the big hill twice as a warm up, then the regular run. It was a good one! I was breathing hard for about an hour (which is close to six miles for me!). Monday night (yesterday) I reconvened with my regular Charles River running buddy and he commented on my speedy pace! I guess I’m improving. I’m starting to believe those old time runners now. They told me that as you put in more miles the speed will pick up naturally.



I think it's due to the Boston Creme donut I had from Dunkin' Donuts yesterday morning. America Runs on Dunkin'

Monday, May 8, 2006

Hair as a Donation....Donations for Hair

I'm growing my hair to donate it for wig production. It has to be 10" long to send it in. Maybe this could be a funraiser in itself! Just like pledging someone per mile for a race...How would you like to pledge per centimeter of hair I grow? Then of course, you can pay me a bonus when I reach the full 10". For those of you that have seen me lately, you know I have a LONG way to go to reach 10".

What do I need pledges ($$) for? Well, I plan to travel the world. When? As soon as I have enough money saved and can take a year off from the working world. I'll spread smiles along the way. That's a good cause right? Support me!

A says he'll grow a beard and accept pledges for his portion of our world travelling trip. Stay tuned for details on that.

All joking aside, I think that it's completely worth my while to grow out my hair (since I'm capable of doing so, and it's a beautiful color!) and donate it to children in need. Here's the info: Locks of Love

Do you want to donate your beautiful hair too?

Tuesday, May 2, 2006

The Tulips are in full bloom now...the trees are complete with blossoms. The Public Garden smells beautiful! (Well, it's raining today, but yesterday it was absolutely perfect!)...

Sorry, I haven't taken pictures, just enjoyed the walk through. If only H could see it now! It's so much better than when she was taking pictures a couple weeks ago.

There's a story from my trip to San Antonio being composed... stay tuned.

Can you believe it's May already? Happy May to you!